About The Native Concern:

Our marriage has been rocky since the beginning. My husband has issues with alcohol addiction, aggression and irresponsible behavior with every including finances. We havnt had any intimacy in marriage since last 9yrs and any of my efforts had been declined in the past. So much so that now I have lost all hope. However recently his behaviors with lying , alcohol, his lifestyle has push my boundaries. I have tried to talk to him about either counseling or medication for his own mental health and he refuses. I have talked about getting separated. I have given everything into this marriage and he will blame me for all his problems. I feel he is manipulating and gaslighting. He is rude and demeaning. My heart is heavy if I have to think of divorce but I can’t understand his hot and cold nature.

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