About The Native Concern:

I met my ex-husband through online classes while attending a HR training. He is also a HR professional. He was younger than me. He is also from a broken family so I thought he would understand me better but he added more agony in my life. We first dated in September 2020 then got married on 1st January, 2021 as he said his mother is sick and she wanted to see him well settled. There were a lot of things he hid from me in this marriage. I don’t want to write about those and disgrace him but those affect our marriage life a lot. He was divorced and pretended that his parents didn't know about it. But later I got to know from his first wife that my mother-in- law actually forced him for that divorce as that girl was not fair in complexion and not from a rich family. However, after marriage, he started asking for money. Then I was on a job at a MNC. I paid for his debts, helped him to get a better job with my professional networks, paid for his expenses, paid for his luxury branded clothes and other necessary things. And guess what he never appreciated me or supported me emotionally rather taunt me for losing my job. After marriage he got a promotion in his present job and found a better job but my career ended. I was abused in my marriage for money as he asked to get money from my dad. His mother hated me as I was older than him and used to taunt every now and then. After 2 months of marriage I came back to my mother's home. Then I got to know he started to chat with different women on FB and dated his colleagues. I tried my best to save that marriage. Even with the consent of my husband I conceived to save my marriage, but my mother-in-law abused me and forced me for abortion. On November 10, 2022 he divorced me. The day before that, I cried a lot and begged my mother-in-law and my husband not to divorce me but he said he is in love with a girl and wanted to marry again. I forgave my alimony in my kabinnama and mentioned it as paid in full as he said he is unable to pay. So it was easier for him to divorce me as there is no responsibility from his side. Every time I trusted him, he broke my trust, my heart…. I’m sorry Sir for writing a lot of things….but it’s like I wanted to share everything….feelings like writing everything Sir which I couldn’t share to anyone….In the last 2 years, I lost everything…..my baby, my job, my marriage…. I can’t share my sorrows with my mom as she cries for me. After divorce, I stopped meeting or contacting my friends. So I can't cry or share with them….My sister-in-law says that nobody will marry me as I’m divorced. So she thinks I’m ill-fated. My brother also wants me to leave the house as I’m unable to contribute much in family expenditure. I don’t have much savings left. Please help me, Sir. Is there any hope that I’ll get a job….otherwise I don’t know what will happen….I want to live my life Sir… Please help me….

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