About The Native Concern:

Namaste Deepanshu Ji, I am following all your videos & posts since 2018. That year brought me into astrology due to my Mercury-Jupiter dasha. A big thanks to you sir. Sir I recently saw your video on 7th lord in 11th house. I have this placement. But in my case my 7th lord (Moon) gets debilitated in 11th house (Scorpio). Although 11th lord (Mars) aspects the 7th house (Cancer) from ascendent. Sir I somehow could not relate to what you explained about the placement. Really sorry but my reality is not as per what you predicted based on this placement. Sir I’ve turned 30 and no relationship has ever occurred to me till date. I dared and shared my feelings with two females till date. One was around late 2010. She rejected and I felt such a heart break that I was not able to heal myself until recently. Then there were other issues too in my life but not able to feel how to talk to a girl, like the intimate talks, discussing feelings, etc. So recently a month ago I again tried and talk to a girl which it seemed was ‘the one’ as nature was bringing her in front of me for like 3-4 months. She also used to wait for me and smile. The moment I tried initiate the discussion she didn’t respond and looked at me strangely like I commited a crime. It’s going to be a month now. I havn’t even seen her around my workplace. Again the same scenario of year 2010. Again same heartbroken vibes are back. I was planning to settle and take a home loan. But this, just this feeling that whomever girl ‘I select’ just does not want to be with me. Not relationship, they don’t even talk to me. Like maybe we both have chatted for a month and so and I would’ve felt that she’s not the one. But now I feel depressed about the thought that I’ll ever be in a relationship where I’ll be happily sharing my feelings with someone. My salary raise is due this month. I was working so intensely on my creative plans but since last month. Since that girl is not willing to talk back to me I feel like resigning from my job, closing my bank account, withdraw money and keep it around my parents desk at home and quietly commit suicide. I do hanuman ji paath daily still I cannot get rid of this suicide thought. Because no matter what I think, I do not feel happy about it. I feel even if I succeed at earning money and make an empire for my family, still I won’t be able to get a good relationship. I’m already 30. The age to do silly things with your partner is fading away for me. So Deepanshu sir, please please answer this one question. ‘Am I destined to be in a relationship? Both that provides mental as well as physical connectivity? I won’t ask for a ‘happy’ relationship yet. But will I get in a relationship with a girl that I like? Not an arranged marriage kind of compromise. Please give an answer about the pending karma associated with this situation of mine. What is my future regarding a relationship? If there is a possibility, then in which year/dasha will it happen? A very senior south indian astrologer once told me a few years ago that my worst nakshatra in this life is Revati nakshatra as my Mercury (aatma-kaarak) is ill-placed. Any planet that will transit from Revati will give bad results as per the dasha. The day I asked that girl last month (1st April), Sun-Moon were transiting through Revati nakshatra while mercury was also in the same raashi debilitated. That’s why mis-communication occured. I only got to know about this the next day after the damage (of just initiating a conversation) was done. I still don’t know what I did wrong. If she didn’t want to talk she would have not given signals in the previous months. Anyways, that has destroyed me. Cannot move ahead and cannot go back and correct what I don’t even know was wrong. I feel I still want to talk to that girl. Why has a similar incident happened after almost 12 years? What have I not learnt from the previous incident?

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